I Run My Family Like a Company to Keep Us Together
I’m busy, so busy that it could be easy to not care about family meetings. Yet, I believe in running my family like a business to an extent. All good organizations need meetings to reflect, plan, celebrate, and grow. From extended family... Continue Reading
Friends and Family Too Far? Host a Virtual Baby Shower Instead
When I received a baby shower invitation last year, I was excited and sad. The friend had just moved to a new state, so attending an in-person shower wasn’t an option. Yet, I was elated to find out I could still... Continue Reading
Legos Unlocked: 15 Ways to Use Legos to Teach Math and Language Arts
Legos are great toys and one of the most creative tools that children can use. Since children love them so much, they make for excellent Math and Language Arts manipulatives. For parents looking to offer new challenges to keep their kids learning,... Continue Reading
A mom’s best secret? Using vaginal weights and Kegels to avoid adult diapers, reduce pain, and reclaim your pelvic health
A photo posted by Kim Anami (@kimanami) on Jan 9, 2015 at 7:40am PST Everyone talks about glutes, biceps, and other popular muscle groups to work out, but as mothers, there’s another area that could really use our attention. Do... Continue Reading
My Hooptie, a Love Story: The Amazing and the Terrible Things about Driving an Old Car
If my car were a person, she’d be getting her driver’s license this year. When I was 17, my parents gave me the amazing gift of a used car. I named her Mollie Malibu. She was mine to take to... Continue Reading
I Had to Fail as a Mommy to Succeed as a Momtrepreneur: Getting Over Guilt to Get Things Done
As a child, I resented spending so much time with a nanny instead of my mother. She built and heads her own food service and manufacturing company, which has multiple operations in different cities. So, as a teenager, I swore... Continue Reading
11 Beautiful Black Dolls Beyond Barbie and Doc McStuffins
When shopping for toys, I always try to find toys that represent my children. There has been an increase in diverse dolls since I was a child. I am happy that there are more mainstream dolls with various shades, such... Continue Reading
10 Survival Tips For Mommies Who Hate Where They Live
Far from the best times of my life, my mid-to-late twenties were an extended pity party. Professionally, emotionally, and physically, I was stuck in a place I didn’t want to be. Hate is too light a word to describe how... Continue Reading
It’s Not New-Agey or Weird: What Black Families Should Know About Unschooling
Last week, Steve Harvey discussed unschooling on his popular talk show. Harvey explained a major benefit of homeschooling his own children was increased family time, but while he supports homeschooling he is unfamiliar with unschooling. On the show, Harvey had... Continue Reading
6 Things Mommies Can Do Each Morning to Set a Productive Tone for the Day
Do you ever feel like life just keeps ‘happening’ to you? Like each day you’re just waking up to find out what it’s going to be today. Of course, sometimes things go your way. But, for the most part you’re... Continue Reading
The Hardest Part of Recovering from Postpartum Depression Was Learning to Speak Up for My Own Needs
After being ravaged by postpartum depression for most of 2015, my 2016 goal was to retain sanity — by any means necessary. Things had fallen apart soon after I gave birth to my daughter, with the pressures of work and... Continue Reading
How My Son’s Ballet Lessons Are Helping Him Develop Character
I’m a big believer in learning through play. Little children learn best when their imaginations and hearts are in the forefront. This is why I love dance class for my son. From the time they can sit up, the tiniest... Continue Reading
5 Reasons I’m Concerned By This Video of a White Teacher Berating a Black Female Student
“I am not as smart as the other kids.” That’s what the child told her mother. “There is nothing that infuriates me more than when you don’t do what’s on your paper!” That’s what the teacher Ms. Dial told the... Continue Reading
Have We Been Conditioned to Panic? 3 Myths About Pregnancy Over 35 Debunked
About a month after my 30th birthday, an elderly woman, who was admiring my 2-week-old daughter, asked my age and if I’d had any other children. When I told her this baby was my first, she warned, “Do your best... Continue Reading
Why I Won’t Buy My Daughter a Baby Doll Unless She Asks
I don’t have anything against dolls. I don’t think they make or break a girl’s sense of self. I don’t think they promote domesticity — and I don’t think being domestic is a bad thing! But I do feel that,... Continue Reading